Bringing back one of my fave blog posts to share with my new friends Let me know what you think!

I look around and there are so many moms that seem to have it all together. Their houses are clean, their kids are clean, they never lose their tempers or forget to put on make-up. They make up delicious recipes to serve their families every night of the week. And, of course, they eat at the kitchen table. Wow! They are so very balanced….or is it an act?

Don’t get me wrong, I’m not saying they are lying. But, do they really have it all together? Or are they just skilled at painting a pretty picture?

I wonder if I look like this from the outside? LOL, probably not! But, I’m sure that the way I seem as a mom and the reality are definitely at odds.

For example, today Aiden and I slept in. On a Tuesday–for no real reason other than we could. I won’t say what time it was when we got out of bed- but lets just say that we didn’t make breakfast, and our first meal probably didn’t even qualify as “brunch”. I’ve run around all morning trying to make it look like I’ve actually been up since 7:30. I’ve cleaned my house, dressed my little toot and even got dressed myself (minus the make-up). If you walked in now to see a clean house with me “working” away on my laptop and my little man riding his motorcycle around the house…you would think we were balanced. And I would let you think that.

Of course I want you to think I’m a great wife and mother, a dedicated housekeeper and that I am making a mental list of ingredients for a new recipe (one that I came up with on my own, of course!) in my head right now. But, that’s not the reality.

The reality is this:

• I stay up too late, and therefore sleep too late.
• I speed-clean more than I deep clean.
• Sometimes we eat Sloppy Joe’s for dinner.
• Sometimes we don’t get dressed until after noon.
• My son watches too much Nick Jr. most days.
• Sometimes I have really bad days and even lose my patience with my precious little man.

I’m not perfect.

The reality is this. I am balanced. It’s not an act. I am a perfect mix of perfection and flaw. To my husband, I am the wife he needs to balance him. He doesn’t mind Hamburger Helper now and then, because we are balanced where it is important. We stand together, face a disease with no answers, protect our son as best we can and love and respect each other no matter what. Our son is happy, silly, smart and beautiful. To him, I am Mommy. Is there any greater honor than that?

I don’t need to win admiration from my fellow moms and I don’t care if you are appalled at my lack of schedule and gourmet menu selection.

This is my life. Beautiful, chaotic, blessed, cursed, balanced or not… this is no act. This is my life.

Hey y’all!

It’s true…I’ve been MIA from Tales of the Toot for a bit, but not to worry!! I’m back on track here and always busy blogging on other fabulous sites around the WWW.

You can find me writing about being the Christian Mom of a Boy over at The M.O.B. Society where I recently wrote about a lot of things I don’t know…and a few things I do.

I’m reviewing tons of fun beauty products and writing about all things southern and sassy in my column “Lone Star State of Mind” at Southern Beauty Magazine.

I’m speaking from the heart about being a special needs mom at 5 Minutes for Special Needs.

And, as always, I’m writing about traveling with your special needs kiddo over at Traveling Mom.

I’ve recently joined the 31 Days to Build a Better Blog challenge with my friends the SITS Girls and BlogFrog and am determined to get back to blogging regularly. Thanks for hangin’ in there with us.

See! Told ya, I’d been busy!! Stay tuned cuz I have great news about my little Toot to tell y’all about and will have all the details from my trip to Lilith Fair in Cleveland, Ohio next week! Wooooot!!

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Okay, so I missed Wordless Wednesday yesterday, but couldn’t resist sharing this cute pic with y’all! Hope you are having a blessed week!

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